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Exclusive: Wives of serial killer Peter Tobin reveal torment at legacy of pain
Dec 20 2009 Marcello Mega, Sunday Mail
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TWO of serial murderer Peter Tobin's wives have shared their agonising torment during an astonishing meeting.
The Sunday Mail was there as first wife Margaret Mackintosh, 58, and third wife Cathy Wilson, 39, came face to face for the emotional talks in the Highlands.
Both ex-wives share an incredible insight into the twisted mind of the man who has bragged of slaying 48 women.
They also suffer the same dreadful legacy of pain after being caught in Tobin's web of evil.
Margaret said: "People think you must be stupid to get involved with a man like that.
"But men like Tobin are clever, they draw you in and they only show their hand when you're under their control."
TOBIN'S EX-WIVES TELL OF TORTURES THEY FACED
A tentative handshake, then two strangers looked into each other's eyes and saw a reflection of their own pain.
The first and third wives of serial sex killer Peter Tobin then talked for the first time about the man who had entered their lives 20 years apart but left them both with memories they are desperately fighting to forget.
Margaret Mackintosh, 58, and Cathy Wilson, 39, had to endure Tobin's terrifying mood swings, extreme violence and depraved sex demands.
Their lives changed forever a few years ago, long after they had put him to the back of their minds, when Tobin was first linked to Angelika Kluk - the young Polish woman found raped and murdered below the floorboards of a Glasgow church.
He was later convicted of her murder and the slaying of teenager Vicky Hamilton.
And, last Wednesday, a jury took just 13minutes to convict Tobin, 63, of the kidnap and murder of 18-year-old Dinah McNicol in 1991.
His former wives had already started to wonder - given the violence and depravity they had witnessed when they were in his life - what else he might have done.
Tobin's hold over both women was broken only by lengthy spells in prison.
Margaret managed to escape his grasp when hewas jailed for a series of thefts. He stayed out of her life apart from one chance brief encounter on a bus in Glasgow in the 1980s.
But Cathy had Tobin's only son, Daniel, and it took her far longer to shake him off. Only a 10-year stretch - for the abduction, rape and sexual assault of two teenage girls he had left to die in a gas-filled flat in Portsmouth, Hampshire - finally cut the tie he had maintained with Daniel and Cathy.
When the women finally met, at an hotel near Culloden, they learned that Tobin had met and charmed them both at a dance hall - Margaret at the age of 17 and Cathy when she was just 16.
Margaret said: "He was kind, humorous and a gentleman. We courted for a few weeks before he took me to meet his mother and father in Paisley. They were elderly and frail but very polite and it confirmed what I thought, 'This is it, I've found the man of my dreams'."
Tobin took her for long drives along the banks of Loch Lomond in his car and maintained the facade of a respectable and respectful local lad.
But that changed when he had her alone at his flat in Shettleston, Glasgow. She wasn't allowed to go out without him, and when she suggested going to visit her parents to collect more clothes, he forbade it, taking her out shopping for cheap clothes,mainly from charity shops.
Within weeks, she was isolated from family and friends.
Cathy told Margaret that her introduction to Tobin had been much the same. He charmed and flattered her, and made her laugh. He was more than twice her age but she was attracted by his confidence.
But again, within weeks, she was effectively his domestic slave, being threatened and shouted at when the mood took him, and completely isolated from everyone who cared for her.
The pair talked about their worst experiences with Tobin.
Margaret said: "He got me a black Labrador puppy but I hadn't had Bute long when he cut off its head while I was at the shops and threw it out the window. I found boys in the yard using the head as a football."
When Margaret tried to remonstrate with him, Tobin punched her hard in the stomach and raped her at knife point.
Turned on by the fear he was inflicting on her, he raped her at knife point three more times - the final time inserting the knife inside her and cutting her internally.
She said: "I almost bled to death but the worst thing was he left me unable to have children."
Cathy endured violence during her time with Tobin but told Margaret her greatest fear was always for Daniel.
She said: "He conned me into getting pregnant at 16 by telling me he was about to have an operation that would leave him infertile.
"He was all sweetness until he had me where he wanted me. Once I was pregnant, he changed, and used Daniel to control me. It was always threats to kill or hurt Daniel if I left. He would even pick him up and mimic throwing him to the floor. I felt like a prisoner."
However, both wives did escape and rebuilt their lives. Margaret revealed to Cathy that she had married five times, finally finding happiness with her current husband.
Cathy put much of her energy into raising Daniel and building a life in business, although she too has another broken marriage behind her.
They discussed the impact of Tobin's murders on their lives.
Margaret said: "I'd never told my husband anything about Tobin. Why should I? He knew I'd been married four times before but Tobin had been a mistake. He'd been out of my life for more than 30 years.
"But when I saw his face on TV and in the newspapers, and saw he was linked to the rape and murder of a beautiful young woman, I had to tell my husband about the connection.
"My life has never been the same since and I dread to think of all the things he might have done. I'm just thankful he's locked up and will never be free again."
Cathy said she had never told Daniel about his father but, like Margaret, felt the publicity was so great that she should explain.
She said: "As he grew up, I realised he had no memory of the incident, and couldn't even recall the time he'd spent with his father. That suited me fine and I'd never have changed that willingly.
"When Tobin was jailed for the double attack in Portsmouth, he wrote to me asking me to bring Daniel to see him in prison. I wrote back that as he was a convicted paedophile, he would never see his son again.
"I thought that was it but when I found out his father was a murderer, I realised I had to tell him before someone else did. He was remarkably calm about it all. He was sad but in his head I was talking about a stranger."
As the two women parted, Margaret summed up what they both felt: "Miserable as the time with Tobin was, we're the lucky ones - we survived."
TOBIN ABUSED PROSTITUES AS REHEARSAL FOR MURDER
Serial sex killer Peter Tobin's third wife yesterday told how she fears his sex sessions with young prostitutes were rehearsals for his terrible murders. Cathy Wilson said the killer forced her to watch the depraved sessions in her own home - and became aroused by the young, waif-like girls' terror.
Cathy, who was only 16 when she married Tobin, 24 years her senior, obeyed him because of his threats and violence.
And when she finally tried to leave with their son Daniel, now 21, he held the little boy at the top of the stairs and threatened to throw him to his death.
Cathy, 39, said yesterday that when she heard the horrifying details of Vicky Hamilton and Dinah McNicol's deaths, she realised his twisted sex games with the prostitutes could have been preparation for murder.
The sordid scenes were played out at their home in Bathgate, West Lothian, where, less than a year after Cathy made good her escape, Vicky, 15, was raped and murdered.
On the last occasion, Cathy was forced to watch as Tobin had put a collar and lead on the terrified vice girl and partially choked her.
Although she had already grown to live in fear of her violent and intimidating husband, Cathy was unprepared for the full extent of his perversion when he brought the first prostitute home.
She recalled: "When he'd stripped her, he took a thin scarf of mine, turned her round and pulled her arms behind her back.
"She looked like resisting for a moment and he must have felt her tense up, because he gave a sharp tug on one arm and said, 'Remember; I paid extra for this.'
"When her hands were tied behind her back, she let out a little moan of pain and he was suddenly beside himself with desire.
"I'd only turned 20 myself in November of that year. I was still young and naive. It's only in the years since then that I've thought about how emaciated she was.
"As they left the room, he told me not to go to sleep as he'd be back soon. As soon as the door closed behind them,I burst into tears. How had I fallen so low so soon?"
When Tobin returned, as became a pattern with his other encounters with prostitutes, he demanded sex with Cathy.
She said: "I couldn't think of anything less desirable at that time, but I had no choice. When he wanted sex, he took it."
Cathy recalled last night: "My whole life with Tobin, apart from Daniel, is something I'd wanted to forget even before he turned out to be a rapist and killer.
"But this part was what I most wanted to forget because of everything he made me endure, this was the worst.
"This was the only thing I personally felt ashamed of, because he made me part of it.
"He always made me watch, which I found disgusting, and once he'd dropped them off as arranged and come back home, he'd insist on having rough sex with me.
"I found it totally revolting, but he was very threatening and capable of extreme violence. He'd also started to use Daniel to keep me in check.
"Once, the morning after one of his evenings with a prostitute, who I knew he'd really hurt and scared, I told him Daniel and I were leaving.
"He lifted Daniel up, carried him to the top of the stairs and lifted him over his head, challenging me with the most hideous glare. 'If you try to leave me, I'll kill him,' he said and made as if to throw him down the stairs.
"I screamed, promised not to go and pleaded with him to give me my son back. He just laughed at me. He was certain he'd made his point.
"Life with Tobin was a nightmare, the lowest period of my life, but this part was the very worst."
Cathy said Tobin introduced the sick sex games into their marriage during the last few months before she managed to flee Scotland.
She said: "We met and married and lived on the south coast, but he insisted on putting in for a council house exchange and in September or October 1989, we moved to 11 Robertson Avenue in Bathgate.
"Life was already hell for me as he'd taken control of my life, isolated me from my family and friends and refused to let me work so we'd gone from having our own home and money to living in a council house on benefits.
"He was so volatile and kept me in fear. Moving me to Scotland, where I knew no one, felt like the final nail.
"From the south coast to West Lothian, just in time for a typically harsh Scottish winter, was not a move I would have chosen.
"I had to put up with the worst six months of my life, months of misery and violence before I finally got away."
There were to be two further visits from prostitutes before Cathy and Daniel managed to escape from Tobin.
Cathy said: "The second time would have been five or six weeks later, around the end of January, beginning of February 1990.
"He told me as he went out that he might be bringing a friend home.
"I did wonder if that was what he'd meant,and I thought about trying to pack and get away with Daniel. But I knew at most I had an hour. I needed to wait until I had more time.
"He soon came back with another unhappy, painfully thin girl. I saw she was a brunette and looked a little bit like me a few years earlier, before I had developed.
"It gave me quite a turn. I really didn't want to watch him abuse that poor girl as well. But I had no choice.
"If anything it was worse than the first time. When he was being really rough with her and she protested, he stopped and cuffed her hard across the side of the head.
"I was so distressed that my husband was such a monster. He clearly got off on her pain and her attempted resistance.
"I was too young and naive to put it into words at the time, but what he was displaying was that he had a really powerful rape fantasy."
Cathy finally managed to escape in March 1990, just 11 months before Vicky met her end in the same house.
But before then, she had to watch a third sickening scene.
She recalled: "I realised from something the girl said later to him while he was hurting her that he'd taken a while to persuade someone to go with him.
"She'd been warned, but had needed the money. She was physically much like the previous girl, and could have been my little sister."
At one point, Tobin put a collar on the girl and began twisting it.
Cathy added: "I was too scared to say much but at one point I had to intervene.
But the only effect my plea for him to stop seemed to have was to excite him more. He loved the power and the control he had."
Tobin rarely left Cathy alone in the house for more than half an hour so opportunities for her to get away were few and far between.
But just a few days after the third prostitute encounter, he complained that his car was becoming too unreliable and said he was going to the auction.
Cathy knew that he would be away for at least three hours, possibly more.
She had been saving for this moment for a while and had managed to tuck s25 away in a hidey-hole.
She wasted no time, grabbing Daniel, stuffing a few clothes for each of them into two carrier bags and running for the bus stop.
"All the time, I was seeing him in the distance," she said.
"I was sure he'd come and catch us and I wondered how he'd punish me. I just prayed he'd take it out on me and not our son.
"When the bus came, I felt slight relief.But I didn't know how long we'd wait in Edinburgh for a bus to London and I still feared he'd catch up with us at the station.
"But all was well and we got the overnight bus to London. The next day, we landed at my grandparents' home in Portsmouth, and I finally felt safe.
"No punishment could ever be severe enough for the monster I married. If ever a man was born who should rot in hell, it's Peter Tobin."
TOBIN TIMELINE
1991
FEBRUARY: Vicky Hamilton, 15 is last seen at a bus stop in Bathgate, West Lothian.
MARCH: Tobin moves from Bathgate to Margate, Kent.
AUGUST: Dinah McNicol, 18, disappears while hitch-hiking home with a friend to Tillingham, Essex. Tobin tells a neighbour he is digging a sandpit.
1993
Tobin rapes two 14-year-old girl babysitters at his flat in Havant, Hampshire.
1994
He pleads guilty to the double sex attack and is jailed for 14 years.
2004
Tobin is released and moves into a flat in Paisley.
2005
He goes on the run after an alleged incident with a young woman.
2006
SEPTEMBER 24: Polish student Angelika Kluk, 23, is last seen at St Patrick's church in Glasgow.
SEPTEMBER 28: Police release a picture of a man known as Pat McLaughlin, an odd-job man who is thought to be the last person to have seen Angelika. They later confirm that McLaughlin is an alias used by Tobin.
SEPTEMBER 30: The body of Angelika Kluk is found.
OCTOBER 1: Tobin is arrested in London.Six days later he is charged with Angelika's murder.
2007
MAY: Tobin is found guilty of the rape and murder of Angelika Kluk.
NOVEMBER 12: Police investigating the disappearance of Dinah McNicol begin a search of Tobin's former house in Margate. The following day remains are found in the back garden.
NOVEMBER 14: Police confirm that the body is Vicky Hamilton's.
NOVEMBER 15: Tobin is formally charged with Vicky's murder.
NOVEMBER 16: A second body is found at Tobin's former home in Margate. Police believe it is Dinah McNicol.
2008
JANUARY: Tobin is arrested in connection with the murder of Dinah.
DECEMBER: He is convicted of the murder of Vicky Hamilton at the High Court in Dundee.
2009
DECEMBER 16: Tobin found guilty of murdering Dinah McNicol by a unanimous verdict.
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